I’m Ellen Slater and I have been a carer for my entire life.
Joyland has been in my heart for over thirty years and I would like to welcome you to my dream.
I have been a carer most of my childhood, adolescence and adulthood.
As a carer I was exhausted, totally isolated, angry and then later guilty, and emotionally burnt out.
I often dreamed of having a break, to be alone for a while to find me, or to do something I would just love doing. This turned me to thinking of others in my situation who need respite and to be nurtured to regain their strength and courage to carry on.
I have cared for many members of my family; my grandmother when I was young, my brother who had severe disabilities after a tragic car accident before his suicide, my mother who had clinical depression and later diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and finally my husband of 23 years who required 24/7 care due to a mental illness and being diagnosed with Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease.
I knew I needed to take control of my life as it was only a matter of time before I would be alone with a young daughter to support, so I decided to study.
I have completed a Masters of Counselling and clinical courses in Family Therapy and supervision, a Diploma of Ministry and a Bachelor of Counselling. I have been awarded the “Golden Key” from the University of New England, Armidale. Whilst studying and also caring for my late husband I operated a successful private practice and support groups from home. Later I became Senior Counsellor and Manager, Counselling & Advocacy, at Carers Queensland and could assist more people.
Joyland is located 300 metres from the beach at Korora, just 9 minutes north of Coffs Harbour. It is a purpose built retreat with two double bedrooms for carers, separate bathroom and toilet, a media room fully stocked with DVDs, a library, and comfy lounge and chairs to listen to the vast array of music.
Here you can totally relax from your caring role to self-care in a restful and peaceful atmosphere. You’ll enjoy home cooked meals and days to sleep and rest, chat, laugh, relax or soak in a French tub. You can spend your time driving through the country, enjoying picnics on the beach, or taking in the delights of Coffs Harbour. Or, you can simply dream and rejuvenate your energy.
My home is your home. We can accommodate couples, individuals and post carers. We also welcome paid carers and hospital clients who need to recuperate. **Fee incurred
We can organise pampering sessions including massage, facials, manicures and pedicures, as well as private counselling appointments.
Organisations can make referrals to us knowing that a fully qualified counsellor is always in attendance.
We understand the caring role as a personal lived experience; we welcome you all, to YOUR carer’s retreat – Joyland.